{"id":200,"date":"2014-05-14T15:35:29","date_gmt":"2014-05-14T07:35:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.handjobtw.org\/?p=200"},"modified":"2014-05-14T15:43:10","modified_gmt":"2014-05-14T07:43:10","slug":"%e7%82%ba%e4%bb%80%e9%ba%bc%e6%80%a7%e4%b8%8d%e6%98%af%e8%a7%a3%e6%b1%ba%e5%81%a5%e5%85%a8%e4%b8%bb%e7%be%a9%e7%9a%84%e6%96%b9%e6%b3%95%ef%bc%9f","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.handangel.org\/?p=200","title":{"rendered":"\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6027\u4e0d\u662f\u89e3\u6c7a\u5065\u5168\u4e3b\u7fa9\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\uff1f"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><b>\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u6027\u4e0d\u662f\u89e3\u6c7a\u5065\u5168\u4e3b\u7fa9\uff08Ableism<\/b><b>\uff09\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\uff1f<br \/>\n<\/b>Why Getting Laid Isn\u2019t the Answer to Ableism<\/p>\n<p>\u25ce\u25ce\u611f\u8b1d\u624b\u5929\u4f7f\u7ffb\u8b6f\u5fd7\u5de5 L-N Chen \u7ffb\u8b6f\u25ce\u25ce<\/p>\n<p><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">January 28, 2014\u00a0by\u00a0<\/b><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/everydayfeminism.com\/author\/erint\/\">Erin Tatum<\/a>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0<\/b><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Erin Taturm\u5beb\u65bc2014.1.28.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Representations of disability in the media are unfortunately few and far between. What little exposure we\u00a0<i style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">do<\/i><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0receive usually comes in the form of fluff pieces \u2013 tragic tales and inspirational stories.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u5f88\u4e0d\u5e78\u5730\uff0c\u65b0\u805e\u5a92\u9ad4\u5c0d\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u7684\u76f8\u95dc\u5831\u5c0e\u4e0d\u53ea\u6578\u91cf\u7a00\u5c11\u3001\u5167\u5bb9\u4ea6\u4e0d\u4e2d\u7acb\u3002\u6211\u5011\u6240\u7372\u5f97\u7684\u5a92\u9ad4\u95dc\u6ce8\uff0c\u7e3d\u4ee5\u4e0d\u600e\u9ebc\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u8edf\u6027\u65b9\u5f0f\u5c55\u73fe\u2500\u50cf\u662f\u60b2\u6158\u906d\u9047\u548c\u52f5\u5fd7\u6545\u4e8b\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">It goes without saying that\u00a0<\/span><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">our lives are a lot more complicated than that.<br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u53ef\u662f\uff0c\u6beb\u7121\u7591\u554f\u5730\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u7684\u4eba\u751f\u9060\u6bd4\u90a3\u4e9b\u8edf\u6027\u5831\u5c0e\u7684\u95dc\u6ce8\u4f86\u5f97\u8907\u96dc\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">We face many issues that can\u2019t be glossed over with a swell of uplifting music.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u632f\u596e\u4eba\u5fc3\u7684\u6fc0\u52f5\u6a02\u66f2\u7121\u6cd5\u63a9\u84cb\u6211\u5011\u6240\u9762\u81e8\u7684\u56f0\u5883\u3002<\/span><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Growing Up into Infantilism<br \/>\n<\/b><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u9577\u5927\u4e86\uff0c\u537b\u9677\u5165\u5e7c\u5152\u75c7\uff08Infantilism<\/b><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\uff09<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00a0<\/b>As a woman with cerebral palsy who uses a wheelchair, coming of age was\u2026disappointing, to say the least.<br \/>\n<span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u8eab\u70ba\u60a3\u4e0a\u8166\u6027\u9ebb\u75fa\uff08cerebral palsy\uff09\u3001\u4f7f\u7528\u8f2a\u6905\u7684\u4e00\u540d\u5973\u6027\uff0c\u6211\u7684\u6210\u9577\u904e\u7a0b\u2500\u9000\u4e00\u6b65\u4f86\u8aaa\u2500\u662f\u5341\u5206\u4ee4\u4eba\u6cae\u55aa\u7684\u3002<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Like most teenagers, I was excited by the prospect of my first relationship. I had a lot of crushes and enjoyed flirting.<br \/>\n<span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u6211\u8ddf\u5927\u591a\u6578\u9752\u5c11\u5e74\u4e00\u6a23\uff0c\u5c0d\u4eba\u751f\u4e2d\u7684\u7b2c\u4e00\u6bb5\u611b\u60c5\u611f\u5230\u8208\u596e\uff1b\u4e5f\u8ff7\u6200\u904e\u4e0d\u5c11\u4eba\u3001\u540c\u6642\u4eab\u53d7\u8abf\u60c5\u7684\u904e\u7a0b\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Unbeknownst to me, I was expected never to move beyond the emotional and social needs of a young child. Accordingly,\u00a0<\/span><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">hardly anyone outside of the disabled community has ever taken me seriously as a potential romantic or sexual partner.<br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u4f46\u6211\u6240\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u4eba\u5011\u4e0d\u671f\u5f85\u6211\u80fd\u8df3\u812b\u51fa\u4e00\u500b\u5e7c\u5c0f\u5b69\u7ae5\u7684\u60c5\u611f\u8207\u793e\u6703\u9700\u6c42\u3002\u4e5f\u56e0\u70ba\u9019\u7a2e\u4e0d\u8a00\u660e\u7684\u671f\u5f85\uff0c\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u793e\u7fa4\u5916\u7684\u5065\u5168\u4eba\u5011\u5f9e\u672a\u8a8d\u771f\u5730\u8996\u6211\u70ba\u6f5b\u5728\u7684\u6200\u611b\u6216\u617e\u6c42\u5c0d\u8c61\u3002<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Able people often deal with their discomfort or lack of awareness about disability by imagining us as perpetual children, thereby claiming to shield us from harsh realities that our circumstances allegedly leave us ill-equipped to handle.<br \/>\n<span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u8eab\u5fc3\u5065\u5168\u7684\u4eba\u5011\u5f80\u5f80\u60f3\u50cf\u6211\u5011\u662f\u9577\u4e0d\u5927\u7684\u5c0f\u5b69\uff0c\u4e26\u4ee5\u6b64\u7a2e\u60f3\u50cf\u4f86\u8655\u7406\u81ea\u5df1\u5c0d\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u4eba\u58eb\u7684\u4e0d\u81ea\u5728\u611f\u3001\u6216\u8a8d\u77e5\u7f3a\u4e4f\uff1b\u9032\u4e00\u6b65\u5730\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u5ba3\u7a31\u9019\u662f\u4fdd\u8b77\u6211\u5011\u514d\u65bc\u6b98\u9177\u73fe\u5be6\u7684\u50b7\u5bb3\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u2500\u5f9e\u4ed6\u5011\u7684\u89d2\u5ea6\u4f86\u770b\u2500\u6211\u5011\u6b98\u7f3a\u7684\u8eab\u5fc3\u72c0\u614b\u4f7f\u6211\u5011\u7121\u6cd5\u81ea\u6211\u4fdd\u8b77\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Since people with disabilities are routinely infantilized, we have an applied universal asexuality assigned to us by the status quo that never really disappears.<br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u5728\u9019\u7a2e\u60c5\u6cc1\u4e0b\uff0c\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u4eba\u58eb\u5f80\u5f80\u88ab\u5e7c\u5152\u5316\uff08infantilized\uff09\uff1b\u800c\u6211\u5011\u7121\u6cd5\u64fa\u812b\u7684\u8eab\u5fc3\u73fe\u72c0\uff0c\u4f7f\u5f97\u4e00\u5957\u5b87\u5b99\u901a\u7528\u7684\u7121\u6027\uff08asexuality\uff09\u6982\u5ff5\u5957\u7528\u5728\u6211\u5011\u8eab\u4e0a\u3002<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i>(Note: I fully acknowledge and respect those in the disabled community who do identify as asexual. I am commenting on the sexual erasure of disabled people of other orientations who are falsely presumed to be asexual.)<br \/>\n<\/i><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\uff08\u4f5c\u8005\u9644\u8a3b\uff1a\u6211\u5b8c\u5168\u610f\u8b58\u5230\u3001\u4e26\u5c0a\u656c\u90a3\u4e9b\u81ea\u8a8d\u70ba\u7121\u6027\u7684\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u4eba\u58eb\u3002\u6211\u662f\u91dd\u5c0d\u6709\u5176\u4ed6\u6027\u50be\u5411\u3001\u4f46\u88ab\u8aa4\u8a8d\u70ba\u7121\u6027\u7684\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u4eba\u58eb\u7684&#8217;\u60c5\u617e\u53bb\u9664'(sexual erasure)\u4e00\u4e8b\uff0c\u4f86\u505a\u8a55\u8ad6\u3002\uff09<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">The\u00a0<i>\u201cintimacy gap\u201d<\/i>\u00a0only widened as I got older.<br \/>\n<\/b><b>\u96a8\u8457\u6211\u9010\u6f38\u9577\u5927\uff0c&#8221;<\/b><b>\u89aa\u5bc6\u95dc\u4fc2\u9694\u95a1&#8221;<\/b><b>\uff08intimacy gap<\/b><b>\uff09\u537b\u4e0d\u65b7\u52a0\u5287<\/b>\u3002<\/p>\n<p>By the time I was in college, it seemed like everyone who\u00a0<i>wanted<\/i>\u00a0to have sex\u00a0<i>was<\/i>\u00a0having sex. Or at least, they were recognized as having the freedom to make their own choices about their relationships and their bodies.<br \/>\n<span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u7b49\u5230\u6211\u4e0a\u5927\u5b78\uff0c\u6240\u6709\u60f3\u8981\u6709\u6027\u884c\u70ba\u7684\u4eba\u4f3c\u4e4e\u90fd\u80fd\u7372\u5f97\u6eff\u8db3\u3002\u6216\u8005\uff0c\u81f3\u5c11\u4e00\u822c\u89c0\u9ede\u8a8d\u70ba\u4ed6\u5011\u80fd\u5c0d\u81ea\u8eab\u7684\u89aa\u5bc6\u95dc\u4fc2\u8207\u8eab\u9ad4\u505a\u51fa\u81ea\u7531\u9078\u64c7\u3002<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t even know what I wanted, but what I resented most was the complete degradation of my own agency. Everyone laughs at the idea that disabled people could have any desire.<br \/>\n<span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u6211\u4e0d\u78ba\u5b9a\u6211\u60f3\u8981\u4ec0\u9ebc\uff0c\u4f46\u6211\u975e\u5e38\u53ad\u60e1\u4eba\u5011\u5c0d\u6211\u7684\u81ea\u4e3b\u4ee3\u7406\u80fd\u529b\uff08agency\uff09\u7684\u5168\u7136\u8cb6\u6291\u3002\u6bcf\u500b\u4eba\u90fd\u5632\u5f04\u8457&#8221;\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u4eba\u58eb\u6703\u6709\u4efb\u4f55\u617e\u671b&#8221;\u6b64\u4e00\u60f3\u6cd5\u3002<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Even sympathetic friends have repeatedly made it clear that how far I go in any relationship depends on the compassion and open-mindedness of the other person, as if my sexuality is grotesque to the point where only bleeding heart saints would dare tolerate it \u2013 and I would be forever indebted to them for doing so.<br \/>\n<span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">That didn\u2019t exactly feel empowering.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u6bcf\u500b\u540c\u60c5\u6211\u7684\u670b\u53cb\u90fd\u53cd\u8986\u5f37\u8abf\u4e00\u500b\u89c0\u9ede\uff1a\u6211\u7684\u60c5\u611f\u95dc\u4fc2\u5b8c\u5168\u53d6\u6c7a\u65bc\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u6190\u61ab\u8207\u958b\u653e\u5fc3\u80f8\uff1b\u5f77\u5f7f\u6211\u7684\u60c5\u617e\u8457\u9ebc\u7578\u5f62\u626d\u66f2\uff0c\u552f\u6709\u5fc3\u8178\u904e\u8edf\u7684\u8056\u4eba\u624d\u6562\u5bb9\u5fcd\u2500\u800c\u6211\u6c38\u9060\u8667\u6b20\u4ed6\u5011\u65bd\u6368\u7684&#8217;\u5bec\u5bb9&#8217;\u3002<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u611f\u89ba\uff0c\u9060\u9060\u7121\u6cd5\u8b93\u4eba\u81ea\u6211\u589e\u80fd(empowering)\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0<\/span><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Portrayals of Disabled Sexuality in the Media<br \/>\n<\/b><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u5a92\u9ad4\u5c0d\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u7684\u60c5\u617e\u523b\u5283<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00a0<\/b>Sick of the condescension, I turned to documentaries and films to see how they handled the topic. Predictably,\u00a0<b>they reinforced many of the same attitudes.<br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u53d7\u5920\u4e86\u5c48\u9075\u4fef\u5c31\u7684\u614b\u5ea6\uff0c\u6211\u8f49\u5411\u7d00\u9304\u7247\u8207\u96fb\u5f71\u4f86\u770b\u770b\u6b64\u4e8c\u985e\u5a92\u9ad4\u578b\u614b\u5982\u4f55\u8655\u7406\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8207\u60c5\u617e\u95dc\u4fc2\u7684\u8b70\u984c\u3002\u53ef\u4ee5\u9810\u6599\u5230\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u9019\u5169\u985e\u5a92\u9ad4\u540c\u6a23\u50be\u5411\u5f37\u5316\u4e0a\u8ff0\u7684\u72f9\u9698\u614b\u5ea6\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Yes, it\u2019s a good thing that they show disabled people as sexual beings with\u00a0<\/span><i style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">(somewhat)\u00a0<\/i><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">natural desires.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u7576\u7136\uff0c\u7d00\u9304\u7247\u548c\u96fb\u5f71\u80fd\u628a\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u4eba\u58eb\u8996\u70ba\u662f\u5e36\u6709\uff08\u67d0\u7a2e\u7a0b\u5ea6\uff09\u81ea\u7136\u6e34\u671b\u7684\u60c5\u617e\u4e4b\u4eba\u662f\u5f88\u597d\u7684\u4e00\u4ef6\u4e8b\u3002<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>However,\u00a0<b>they use this guise of liberalism to reassert able superiority and reaffirm the deviance of disabled sexuality to the audience<\/b>, confirming the very stigma that they claim to be breaking down.<br \/>\n<span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u53ea\u662f\uff0c\u9019\u985e\u81ea\u7531\u4e3b\u7fa9\u614b\u5ea6\u4e0d\u904e\u662f\u7a2e\u63a9\u98fe\u3001\u4ed6\u5011\u91cd\u65b0\u5411\u89c0\u773e\u4f38\u5f35\u5065\u5168\u8005\u7684\u512a\u8d8a\u6027\uff0c\u4ee5\u53ca\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u4e4b\u60c5\u617e\u7684\u7570\u5e38\u6027\u3002\u6b64\u7a2e\u4f5c\u6cd5\uff0c\u53cd\u5012\u5f37\u5316\u4e86\u4ed6\u5011\u5ba3\u7a31\u4f01\u5716\u53bb\u6253\u7834\u7684\u523b\u677f\u5370\u8c61\u3002<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>For examples, check out\u00a0<i>Scarlet Road<\/i>\u00a0and\u00a0<i>Sex on Wheels<\/i>.<br \/>\n<span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u7d00\u9304\u7247\u578b\u614b\u7684\u96fb\u5f71&#8217;Scarlet Road&#8217;\u8207&#8217;Sex on Wheels&#8217;\uff0c\u4fbf\u662f\u9019\u985e\u4ee3\u8868\u3002<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i>The Sessions<\/i>\u00a0is probably the most popular illustration of these themes, about the relationship between a provider of commercial sex and her virginal middle-aged client disabled from polio, but the reviews were so rife with ableism and glorification of the provider\u2019s\u00a0<i>\u201cselflessness\u201d<\/i>\u00a0that I admittedly couldn\u2019t bring myself to watch it.<br \/>\n<span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u9664\u4e86\u4e0a\u8ff0\u5169\u7247\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c&#8217;\u6027\u798f\u7642\u7a0b&#8217;\uff08The Sessions\uff09\u6216\u8a31\u662f\u95e1\u8ff0\u76f8\u95dc\u4e3b\u65e8\u4e2d\u3001\u6700\u53d7\u6b61\u8fce\u7684\u96fb\u5f71\u3002\u8a72\u7247\u4e3b\u8ef8\u5efa\u7acb\u5728\u4e00\u540d\u6027\u5de5\u4f5c\u8005\u8207\u4e00\u540d\u60a3\u6709\u5c0f\u5152\u75f2\u75fa\u75c7\u7684\u4e2d\u5e74\u8655\u7537\u5ba2\u6236\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u4e4b\u4e0a\uff1b\u800c\u5f71\u8a55\u4e2d\u8655\u8655\u53ef\u898b\u7684\u5065\u5168\u4e3b\u7fa9\uff0c\u4ee5\u53ca\u5c0d\u8a72\u540d\u6027\u5de5\u4f5c\u8005\u7684&#8217;\u7121\u79c1&#8217;\u7cbe\u795e\u7684\u6b4c\u980c\uff0c\u5728\u5728\u90fd\u4f7f\u6211\u4e0d\u9858\u53bb\u770b\u90a3\u90e8\u96fb\u5f71\u3002<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Any frank discussion of sex and disability will almost inevitably fall back on a certain narrative: The disabled person is tired of being a virgin and hires a provider of commercial sex, either as a defiant rebuff of social norms or out of sheer loneliness and a desire for physical contact.<br \/>\n<span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u986f\u800c\u6613\u898b\u5730\uff0c\u4efb\u4f55\u95dc\u65bc\u6027\u548c\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u7684\u5766\u7387\u8ad6\u8ff0\u5f80\u5f80\u843d\u5165\u65e2\u5b9a\u7aa0\u81fc\uff1a\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u60f3\u64fa\u812b\u8655\u5b50\u4e4b\u8eab\u800c\u9078\u64c7\u6027\u4ea4\u6613\uff0c\u662f\u51fa\u65bc\u5c0d\u793e\u6703\u898f\u7bc4\u7684\u53cd\u6297\u3001\u6216\u50c5\u50c5\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u5b64\u7368\u3001\u548c\u6e34\u671b\u80a2\u9ad4\u63a5\u89f8\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Bonus points if the person\u2019s parent helps set up the exchange and the crew wastes no opportunity to underscore how creepy that is.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u800c\u5982\u679c\u8a72\u540d\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u7684\u7236\u6bcd\u80fd\u5e6b\u52a9\u4fc3\u6210\u6b64\u4e00\u4ea4\u6613\uff0c\u5247\u66f4\u70ba\u5f71\u7247\u7684\u4e00\u5927\u4eae\u9ede\uff1b\u8207\u6b64\u540c\u6642\uff0c\u5f71\u7247\u4eba\u54e1\u66f4\u6293\u7dca\u6a5f\u6703\u3001\u4f86\u5f37\u8abf\u9019\u7a2e\u4ea4\u6613\u7684\u8a6d\u7570\u7a0b\u5ea6\u3002 \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Expect heavy emphasis on how the disabled person will have all of their social problems disappear once they lose their virginity. We\u2019re just bitter because we\u2019re so horny!<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u9664\u6b64\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c\u5728\u9019\u985e\u578b\u7684\u5f71\u7247\u88e1\uff0c\u4e5f\u53ef\u9810\u671f\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u7684\u6240\u6709\u793e\u6703\u554f\u984c\uff0c\u96a8\u8457\u4ed6\u5011\u5931\u53bb\u8655\u5b50\u4e4b\u8eab\u800c\u89e3\u6c7a\u3002\u5f77\u5f7f\u6211\u5011\u7684\u5c16\u9178\u523b\u8584\uff0c\u5168\u4f86\u81ea\u6211\u5011\u5c0d\u6027\u7684\u98e2\u6e34\uff01<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">The provider of commercial sex will be elevated to sainthood at every turn. Viewers just can\u2019t seem to get enough of how they can bear to have sex with disabled people, instead of acknowledging them as merely having a good attitude towards their job.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u8207\u6b64\u540c\u6642\uff0c\u6027\u5de5\u4f5c\u8005\u5247\u8e8d\u5347\u70ba\u8056\u4eba\u3002\u89c0\u773e\u4f3c\u4e4e\u53ea\u95dc\u6ce8\u9019\u4e9b\u6027\u5de5\u4f5c\u8005\u7adf\u7136\u80fd\u5fcd\u53d7\u8207\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u767c\u751f\u6027\u884c\u70ba\uff0c\u800c\u610f\u8b58\u4e0d\u5230\u4ed6\u5011\u53ea\u662f\u5728\u505a\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u5de5\u4f5c\u7f77\u4e86\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">So as not to appear callous, the narrative will milk the sympathy angle. The provider of commercial sex will talk at length about the extent of the inexperience of their disabled clients, however unintentionally framing themselves as the able savior who is going to free the disabled person from repression.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u53e6\u5916\uff0c\u70ba\u4e86\u907f\u514d\u8868\u73fe\u5f97\u592a\u904e\u51b7\u9177\u7121\u60c5\uff0c\u5f71\u7247\u7684\u6558\u4e8b\u624b\u6cd5\u7e3d\u662f\u5f9e\u540c\u60c5\u7684\u89d2\u5ea6\u51fa\u767c\uff1b\u5728\u7247\u4e2d\uff0c\u7576\u6027\u5de5\u4f5c\u8005\u5927\u8ac7\u7279\u8ac7\u4ed6\u5011\u7684\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u5ba2\u6236\u591a\u9ebc\u7f3a\u4e4f\u7d93\u9a57\u7684\u540c\u6642\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u4fbf\u4e0d\u5c0f\u5fc3\u5730\u628a\u81ea\u8eab\u6a19\u699c\u6210\u5c07\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u5f9e\u793e\u6703\u58d3\u6291\u4e2d\u62ef\u6551\u51fa\u4f86\u7684\u5065\u5168\u8005\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">The Consequences of Spectacle<br \/>\n<\/b><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u88ab\u7576\u505a\u5947\u89c0\u7684\u7d50\u679c<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00a0<\/b>To be clear, I have nothing against a disabled person\u2019s choice to work with a provider of commercial sex, nor do I think that the provider intends to come off as patronizing.<br \/>\n<span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u8001\u5be6\u8aaa\uff0c\u6211\u5c0d\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u9078\u64c7\u6027\u4ea4\u6613\u6c92\u6709\u610f\u898b\uff0c\u4e5f\u4e0d\u8a8d\u70ba\u6027\u5de5\u4f5c\u8005\u6545\u610f\u5c0d\u6b64\u985e\u5ba2\u6236\u64fa\u51fa\u9ad8\u59ff\u614b\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">A lot of ignorance exists around sex and disability, and the provider of commercial sex is<\/span><i style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">(unfairly)\u00a0<\/i><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">looked to as the all-knowing expert.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u5c0d\u65bc\u6027\u548c\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u9593\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\uff0c\u4eba\u5011\u4ecd\u7136\u76f8\u7576\u7121\u77e5\uff1b\u800c\u5728\u9019\u7a2e\u60c5\u6cc1\u4e0b\uff0c\u6027\u5de5\u4f5c\u8005\uff08\u4e0d\u516c\u5e73\u5730\uff09\u88ab\u8996\u70ba\u662f\u5168\u77e5\u7684\u5c08\u5bb6\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">The problem lies in the way it\u2019s presented<\/b><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">, encouraging the audience to gawk and giggle.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u554f\u984c\u7684\u6839\u6e90\u5728\u65bc\u9019\u500b\u8b70\u984c\u662f\u5982\u4f55\u5448\u73fe\u5728\u5927\u773e\u9762\u524d\uff1a\u5b83\u5f80\u5f80\u662f\u4ee5\u8b93\u89c0\u773e\u77a0\u76ee\u7d50\u820c\u548c\u54af\u54af\u50bb\u7b11\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Providers of commercial sex face enough prejudice already without being made into a spectacle for their choice of clientele. There appears to be many similarities between the portrayals of providers who cater to particular fetishes and those who cater to disabled clients.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u9664\u537b\u5176\u7279\u6b8a\u9867\u5ba2\u7684\u9078\u64c7\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c\u6027\u5de5\u4f5c\u8005\u5df2\u906d\u9047\u5230\u76f8\u7576\u591a\u7684\u504f\u898b\u3002\u5373\u4f7f\u662f\u5728\u63cf\u7e6a\u6027\u5de5\u4f5c\u8005\u8207\u6200\u7269\u7656\u8005\u3001\u6216\u548c\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u5ba2\u6236\u4e4b\u9593\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u6642\uff0c\u5169\u985e\u95dc\u4fc2\u6709\u8a31\u591a\u76f8\u4f3c\u4e4b\u8655\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">The implication is that we are still supposed to understand their clients as abnormal and unworthy of the mainstream. The progressivism only comes into play when we build up an ambivalent tolerance rather than outright repulsion.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u9019\u5169\u985e\u95dc\u4fc2\u90fd\u96b1\u542b\u8457\u6211\u5011\u4ecd\u8996\u8a72\u985e\u578b\u5ba2\u6236\u70ba\u7570\u5e38\u3001\u4e14\u4e0d\u503c\u5f97\u4e3b\u6d41\u50f9\u503c\u95dc\u6ce8\u3002\u552f\u6709\u7576\u6211\u5011\u771f\u6b63\u5efa\u7acb\u5c0d\u597d\u60e1\u885d\u7a81\u7684\u5bec\u5bb9\u2500\u800c\u975e\u516c\u7136\u8868\u9054\u5acc\u60e1\u6642\u2500\u9032\u6b65\u4e3b\u7fa9\uff08progressivism\uff09\u624d\u80fd\u767c\u63ee\u4f5c\u7528\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">We can breathe a sigh of relief that we don\u2019t have to feel guilty for allowing our biases to facilitate the sexual repression of pitiful undesirables.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u5230\u9019\u500b\u7a0b\u5ea6\u6642\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u624d\u80fd\u9b06\u53e3\u6c23\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u6211\u5011\u7121\u9700\u518d\u70ba\u81ea\u8eab\u504f\u898b\u6240\u4fc3\u6210\u7684\u3001\u5c0d\u4ee4\u4eba\u540c\u60c5\u7684\u602a\u7570\u4efd\u5b50\u7684\u60c5\u617e\u58d3\u6291\u611f\u5230\u7f6a\u60e1\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">By viewing providers of commercial sex who work with the disabled as essentially the garbage men of society\u2019s cringe-inducing sexual underbelly,\u00a0<\/span><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">you degrade both the provider of commercial sex and the disabled person.<br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u628a\u8207\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u9032\u884c\u4ea4\u6613\u7684\u6027\u5de5\u4f5c\u8005\u7576\u505a\u8655\u7406\u793e\u6703\u4e0a\u602a\u7570\u60c5\u617e\u7684\u6e05\u6f54\u4eba\u54e1\uff0c\u53ea\u6703\u540c\u6642\u8cb6\u4f4e\u6027\u5de5\u4f5c\u8005\u8207\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Regardless of how anyone else perceives them, the provider\u2019s professional relationships with their clients likely hold a great deal of significance. Labeling them as simply<\/span><i style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0\u201ctaking one for the team\u201d<\/i><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0by working with disabled people glosses over the complexity of these bonds.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u4e0d\u7ba1\u4ed6\u4eba\u5982\u4f55\u770b\u5f85\uff0c\u6027\u5de5\u4f5c\u8005\u8207\u5ba2\u6236\u9593\u7684\u5c08\u696d\u95dc\u4fc2\u81ea\u6709\u5176\u91cd\u8981\u6027\u3002\u628a\u4ed6\u5011\u8207\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u9593\u7684\u95dc\u4fc2\u8996\u505a&#8221;\u70ba\u5718\u968a\u72a7\u7272&#8221;\uff0c\u53ea\u6703\u63a9\u84cb\u6b64\u4e00\u95dc\u4fc2\u7684\u8907\u96dc\u7a0b\u5ea6\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">In addition, no matter how honestly the subject is handled, the disabled person\u2019s sexuality usually remains disrespected. They may have gained street cred, but we are constantly reminded that they only achieved momentary sexual validation through elaborately orchestrated, almost painfully sterile circumstances.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u9664\u6b64\u4e4b\u5916\uff0c\u7121\u8ad6\u5982\u4f55\u76f4\u7387\u5730\u8655\u7406\u9019\u985e\u8b70\u984c\uff0c\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u672c\u8eab\u7684\u6027\u617e\u4ecd\u4e0d\u53d7\u5c0a\u91cd\u3002\u6216\u8a31\u4ed6\u5011\u5f9e\u4e2d\u7372\u5f97\u67d0\u7a2e\u7a0b\u5ea6\u7684\u8a8d\u53ef\uff0c\u4f46\u6211\u5011\u4ecd\u5e38\u5e38\u53d7\u5230\u63d0\u9192\uff1a\u6211\u5011\u7684\u60c5\u617e\u662f\u900f\u904e\u523b\u610f\u7b56\u5283\u3001\u5728\u7121\u6cd5\u751f\u80b2\u7684\u75db\u82e6\u60c5\u6cc1\u4e0b\uff0c\u624d\u7372\u5f97\u8a8d\u53ef\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">At the end of the day,\u00a0<\/span><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">no one is actually meant to start perceiving disabled people as desirable.<br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u5230\u982d\u4f86\uff0c\u6c92\u4eba\u771f\u5fc3\u8996\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u70ba\u6e34\u6c42\u7684\u5c0d\u8c61\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0<\/b><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">The cultural stigmas go unquestioned and loom larger. We\u2019re merely comforted and impressed by the fact that a few disabled people have the resources\/privilege to achieve fleeting oppression transcendence.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u6587\u5316\u6c61\u540d\u4ecd\u7136\u672a\u53d7\u6311\u6230\u4e14\u6301\u7e8c\u589e\u5f37\u3002\u6211\u5011\u6240\u611f\u53d7\u5230\u7684\u55ae\u8584\u5b89\u6170\u8207\u5370\u8c61\uff0c\u5168\u4f86\u81ea\u65bc\u5c11\u6578\u5e7e\u540d\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u80fd\u6709\u8cc7\u6e90\/\u7279\u6b0a\u3001\u4f86\u66ab\u6642\u6027\u5730\u8d85\u8d8a\u793e\u6703\u58d3\u8feb\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">The \u2018Radical\u2019 Reinforcement of an Ableist Status Quo<br \/>\n<\/b><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u5065\u5168\u4e3b\u7fa9\u73fe\u72c0\u7684&#8217;<\/b><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u6fc0\u9032&#8217;<\/b><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u5f37\u5316<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>\u00a0<\/b>Now you may be thinking,\u00a0<i>\u201cErin, why are you rambling on about a few obscure documentaries? Surely their messages can\u2019t be getting much traction.\u201d<br \/>\n<\/i><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u73fe\u5728\uff0c\u4f60\u6216\u8a31\u5728\u60f3\uff1a&#8221;Erin\uff0c\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u4f60\u4e00\u76f4\u5728\u8ac7\u8ad6\u5c11\u6578\u5e7e\u90e8\u6666\u6f80\u7684\u7d00\u9304\u7247\uff1f\u4ed6\u5011\u7684\u8a0a\u606f\u4e0d\u53ef\u80fd\u7372\u5f97\u592a\u5927\u8ff4\u97ff\u3002&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">What\u2019s scary is that these pieces are supposed to be the cutting edge of gritty disability expos\u00e9, finally cutting to the heart of the genuine social struggles faced by people with disabilities.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u4f46\u554f\u984c\u662f\uff1a\u9019\u4e9b\u7d00\u9304\u7247\u672c\u8a72\u52c7\u65bc\u63ed\u9732\u3001\u771f\u8aa0\u63a2\u8a0e\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u9762\u81e8\u7684\u793e\u6703\u6399\u624e\u53ca\u8b70\u984c\u672c\u8cea\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Even in these alleged moments of radicalism, the idea persists that we just can\u2019t have a sexuality without it being distorted or misappropriated through an ableist lens.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u5373\u4fbf\u662f\u7d00\u9304\u7247\u4e2d\u6240\u8b02\u7684\u6fc0\u9032\u6642\u523b\uff0c\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u7684\u6027\u617e\u4e5f\u8df3\u812b\u4e0d\u51fa\u5065\u5168\u4e3b\u7fa9\u89c0\u9ede\u7684\u626d\u66f2\u6216\u6feb\u7528\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">If we\u2019re virgins, we\u2019re sad. If we seek providers of commercial sex, we\u2019re desperate. If we pursue casual sexual conquests and succeed, we\u2019re delusional caricatures of sluts and womanizers.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u5982\u679c\u6211\u5011\u4fdd\u6301\u8655\u5b50\u4e4b\u8eab\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u4fbf\u662f\u60b2\u50b7\u7684\u4e00\u7fa4\u3002\u5982\u679c\u6211\u5011\u6c42\u52a9\u6027\u5de5\u4f5c\u8005\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u662f\u5982\u6b64\u5b64\u6ce8\u4e00\u64f2\u3002\u82e5\u6211\u5011\u8ffd\u6c42\u4e00\u822c\u7684\u6d41\u9023\u82b1\u53e2\u4e4b\u4e2d\u3001\u4e26\u6210\u529f\u7684\u8a71\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u662f\u6d6a\u8569\u5973\u548c\u82b1\u82b1\u516c\u5b50\u7684\u72c2\u60f3\u8af7\u523a\u7248\u672c\u3002<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>It\u2019s true that able people face the same sex-related stereotypes to an extent, but with nowhere near the same level of snide mockery.<br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u7684\u78ba\uff0c\u5065\u5168\u7684\u4eba\u4e5f\u9762\u5c0d\u67d0\u7a2e\u7a0b\u5ea6\u7684\u6027\u523b\u677f\u5370\u8c61\uff0c\u4f46\u9060\u4e0d\u53ca\u6211\u5011\u6240\u906d\u53d7\u5230\u7684\u60e1\u610f\u5632\u5f04\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Adding insult to injury, this tongue-in-cheek skepticism is rendered benign because remember, we\u2019re children, and children apparently have no grasp of the reality of social interactions. But it sure is hilariously adorable when we think we do!<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u5728\u50b7\u53e3\u4e0a\u7051\u9e7d\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u90a3\u4e9b\u8a00\u4e0d\u7531\u8877\u7684\u61f7\u7591\u4e3b\u7fa9\u88ab\u7576\u505a\u662f\u5f9e\u5584\u610f\u7684\u89d2\u5ea6\u51fa\u767c\u3002\u56e0\u70ba\u2500\u8a18\u5f97\u55ce\u2500\u6211\u5011\u662f\u4e00\u7fa4\u4e0d\u80fd\u9577\u5927\u7684\u5c0f\u5b69\uff1b\u800c\u4e14\u5c0f\u5b69\u4e0d\u6703\u4e86\u89e3\u793e\u6703\u4e92\u52d5\u7684\u771f\u8ae6\u3002\u53ea\u662f\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u6211\u5011\u771f\u7684\u9019\u9ebc\u60f3\u7684\u8a71\uff0c\u624d\u771f\u7684\u662f\u8352\u8b2c\u53ef\u7b11\uff01<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">That\u2019s the core of the issue. The most intimate portrayals of our lives and desires do nothing to dispel the myth that disabled people are socially inferior.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u9019\u6b63\u662f\u554f\u984c\u6240\u5728\uff1a\u5373\u4f7f\uff08\u5a92\u9ad4\uff09\u8a73\u7d30\u63cf\u7e6a\u6211\u5011\u7684\u751f\u6d3b\u548c\u617e\u671b\uff0c\u90a3\u4e26\u672a\u89e3\u9664\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u662f\u4f4e\u7b49\u793e\u4ea4\u5c64\u7d1a\u7684\u8ff7\u601d\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">They naturalize these biases as not only correct but harmless since the able community is gracious enough to provide us with an outlet.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u7576\u5065\u5168\u793e\u7fa4\u81ea\u8a8d\u70ba\u4ec1\u6148\u5730\u63d0\u4f9b\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u9019\u6a23\u4e00\u500b\u767c\u6d29\u7ba1\u9053\u6642\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u5c07\u4e0a\u8ff0\u504f\u898b\u81ea\u7136\u5316\u6210\u4e00\u4ef6\u6b63\u78ba\u4e14\u7121\u5bb3\u7684\u4e8b\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Sex is all we need, right?<br \/>\n<\/i><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u7562\u7adf\uff0c\u6027\u5c31\u662f\u6211\u5011\u6240\u6709\u4eba\u90fd\u9700\u8981\u7684\uff0c\u4e0d\u662f\u55ce\uff1f<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">If people want to hire a provider of commercial sex, that\u2019s their decision.<br \/>\n<\/span>\u5982\u679c\u4eba\u5011\u6c7a\u5b9a\u9032\u884c\u6027\u4ea4\u6613\uff0c\u90a3\u662f\u4ed6\u5011\u7684\u9078\u64c7\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">However, that shouldn\u2019t be viewed as our only option.<br \/>\n<\/span>\u4f46\u662f\uff0c\u9019\u500b\u9078\u64c7\u4e0d\u8a72\u662f\u6211\u5011\u7684\u552f\u4e00\u9078\u9805\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">What if we don\u2019t want just sex? What if we want conversation? dating? a spouse? What if we just want to flirt with some attractive people and have them be flattered instead of disgusted or amused?<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u5982\u679c\u6211\u5011\u60f3\u8981\u7684\u4e0d\u53ea\u662f\u6027\u611b\u5462\uff1f\u5982\u679c\u6211\u5011\u60f3\u8981\u7684\u662f\u89aa\u5bc6\u5c0d\u8a71\uff1f\u7d04\u6703\uff1f\u53e6\u4e00\u534a\uff1f\u5982\u679c\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u53ea\u662f\u60f3\u8981\u548c\u6709\u9b45\u529b\u7684\u4eba\u8abf\u60c5\uff0c\u4e14\u5c0d\u65b9\u6703\u89ba\u5f97\u9ad8\u8208\u3001\u800c\u975e\u5641\u5fc3\u6216\u767c\u7b11\uff1f<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">You can\u2019t selectively ignore all the other social prejudices that disabled people face just because you think you found a one-size-fits-all solution to one aspect of one problem.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u4f60\u4e0d\u80fd\u9078\u64c7\u6027\u5730\u5ffd\u8996\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u6240\u9762\u5c0d\u7684\u5176\u4ed6\u793e\u6703\u504f\u898b\uff0c\u53ea\u56e0\u70ba\u4f60\u4ee5\u70ba\u4f60\u627e\u5230\u4e86\u91dd\u5c0d\u55ae\u4e00\u554f\u984c\u3001\u55ae\u4e00\u9762\u5411\u7684\u901a\u89e3\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Orgasms can\u2019t erase ableism.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u8eab\u9ad4\u9ad8\u6f6e\u7121\u6cd5\u62b9\u53bb\u5065\u5168\u4e3b\u7fa9\u7684\u5b58\u5728\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Ableism exists on an institutional, social, cultural, and everyday level.<br \/>\n<\/b>\u5065\u5168\u4e3b\u7fa9\u5236\u5ea6\u5316\u5730\u5b58\u5728\u65bc\u793e\u6703\u3001\u6587\u5316\u3001\u548c\u65e5\u5e38\u751f\u6d3b\u4e4b\u4e2d\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">While sex can be perceived as a fundamental human experience, helping someone get laid as a means to assuage collective guilt from the mainstream and\u00a0<\/span><i style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u201callow\u201d<\/i><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0disabled people to believe that they\u2019ve achieved social equality is\u00a0<\/span><i style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">(no pun intended)<\/i><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0fucking ridiculous.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u7576\u6027\u88ab\u8996\u70ba\u4eba\u985e\u57fa\u672c\u7d93\u9a57\u7684\u540c\u6642\uff0c\u628a\u5e6b\u52a9\u67d0\u4eba\u7372\u5f97\u9019\u985e\u7d93\u9a57\u3001\u7576\u505a\u6e1b\u7de9\u4e3b\u6d41\u5718\u9ad4\u7684\u96c6\u9ad4\u7f6a\u60e1\u611f\u7684\u624b\u6bb5\uff0c\u4f86&#8221;\u5141\u8a31&#8221;\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u76f8\u4fe1\u4ed6\u5011\u53d6\u5f97\u793e\u6703\u5e73\u7b49\uff0c\uff08\u6c92\u6709\u96d9\u95dc\u8a9e\u610f\u6db5\uff09\u4e43\u662f\u4e00\u4ef6\u8a72\u6b7b\u5730\u6ed1\u7a3d\u4e4b\u4e8b\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">By fixating on sexual experience as the Holy Grail of basic humanity, the able community lazily sweeps ableism under the rug to avoid critiquing their own privilege.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u628a\u6027\u7d93\u9a57\u7576\u505a\u57fa\u672c\u4eba\u6027\u7684\u8056\u676f\uff0c\u5065\u5168\u793e\u7fa4\u4ee5\u70ba\u80fd\u5c31\u6b64\u5c0d\u5065\u5168\u4e3b\u7fa9\u8996\u800c\u4e0d\u898b\uff0c\u4ee5\u907f\u514d\u5176\u7279\u6b0a\u906d\u53d7\u6279\u5224\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">We are repeatedly called upon to beg for breadcrumbs of legitimacy.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u6211\u5011\u4e0d\u505c\u5730\u53cd\u8986\u61c7\u6c42\u5065\u5168\u793e\u7fa4\u7d66\u4e88\u6211\u5011\u4e00\u9ede\u9ede\u6b63\u7576\u6027\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">I\u2019ve had numerous crushes delight in\u00a0<\/span><i style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u201chumoring\u201d<\/i><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0me by asking me to make a case for why I think they should find me attractive, with the forgone conclusion that they never would.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u8a31\u591a\u4eba\u8a66\u5716\u900f\u904e\u554f\u6211\uff1a&#8221;\u70ba\u4f55\u4ed6\u5011\u61c9\u8a72\u89ba\u5f97\u6211\u662f\u6709\u9b45\u529b\u7684\uff1f&#8221;\u6b64\u4e00\u65b9\u5f0f\u4f86\u8b93\u6211\u611f\u5230&#8221;\u5e7d\u9ed8&#8221;\u7684\u540c\u6642\uff0c\u537b\u62b1\u6301\u8457&#8221;\u4e0d\u6703\u89ba\u5f97\u6211\u6709\u9b45\u529b&#8221;\u7684\u65e2\u5b9a\u7d50\u8ad6\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">I\u2019m a sexy, strong woman regardless of ability.<br \/>\n<\/b>\u7121\u8ad6\u6211\u8eab\u5fc3\u5065\u5168\u8207\u5426\uff0c\u6211\u5c31\u662f\u500b\u6027\u611f\u3001\u5f37\u58ef\u7684\u5973\u4eba\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">No one should ever be expected to prove their desirability. If your partner ever acts like they\u2019re doing you a favor by tolerating being with you, head for the hills.<br \/>\n<\/span>\u4eba\u5011\u4e0d\u61c9\u8a72\u671f\u8a31\u4ed6\u4eba\u53bb\u8b49\u660e\u81ea\u8eab\u662f\u503c\u5f97\u6e34\u6c42\u7684\u3002\u82e5\u4f60\u7684\u53e6\u4e00\u534a\u8868\u73fe\u51fa&#8221;\u5fcd\u53d7\u8ddf\u4f60\u5728\u4e00\u8d77\uff0c\u662f\u5728\u65bd\u6368\u4f60\u6069\u60e0&#8221;\u7684\u8a71\uff0c\u8d95\u5feb\u9583\u9060\u9060\u7684\u5427\uff01<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Not to mention the countless other deeply entrenched inequalities impacting people with disabilities \u00a0\u2013\u00a0<\/span><i style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">difficulties with poverty, unemployment, and housing to name a few<\/i><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0\u2013 that easily eclipse matters of the heart, but that\u2019s another article for another day.<br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u66f4\u4e0d\u7528\u8aaa\u5176\u4ed6\u570d\u7e5e\u5728\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u8eab\u4e0a\u3001\u7121\u6578\u6839\u6df1\u8482\u56fa\u7684\u4e0d\u5e73\u7b49\u2500\u8209\u4f8b\u4f86\u8aaa\uff0c\u8ca7\u7aae\u3001\u5931\u696d\u3001\u548c\u5c45\u4f4f\u554f\u984c\u2500\u5728\u5728\u90fd\u8b93\u4eba\u5fc3\u788e\uff0c\u800c\u9019\u9700\u8981\u53e6\u4e00\u7bc7\u6587\u7ae0\u4f86\u505a\u8a0e\u8ad6\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u00a0The media attempts to raise awareness of disability, albeit misguidedly. For that, I am grateful. But it doesn\u2019t mean we can wash our hands of a marginalized community after a few minutes of education.<br \/>\n<\/span>\u5118\u7ba1\u6709\u8aa4\u5c0e\u7684\u5acc\u7591\uff0c\u6211\u4ecd\u7136\u611f\u8b1d\u5a92\u9ad4\u4f01\u5716\u63d0\u9ad8\u4eba\u5011\u5c0d\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u7684\u8a8d\u77e5\u3002\u4f46\u9019\u4e0d\u8868\u793a\uff1a\u5728\u5c11\u5c11\u5e7e\u5206\u9418\u7684\u6559\u80b2\u4e4b\u5f8c\uff0c\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u4e0d\u518d\u7406\u776c\u4e00\u500b\u88ab\u908a\u7de3\u5316\u7684\u7fa4\u9ad4\u3002<\/p>\n<p><b style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Don\u2019t let yourself get wrapped up in the feel-good story.<br \/>\n<\/b><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u5225\u8b93\u4f60\u81ea\u5df1\u6c88\u6eba\u65bc\u90a3\u4e9b\u8b93\u81ea\u8eab\u611f\u89ba\u826f\u597d\u7684\u3001\u95dc\u65bc\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u7684\u6545\u4e8b\u4e0a\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Look for the subtle implications of the message. In lieu of passively indulging in the spectacle to remain within your comfort zone, turn that same level of scrutiny on the social norms themselves.<br \/>\n<\/span>\u770b\u770b\u96b1\u85cf\u5728\u90a3\u4e9b\u8a0a\u606f\u4e4b\u4e0b\u7684\u793e\u6703\u610f\u6db5\u3002\u76f8\u8f03\u65bc\u95dc\u6ce8\u793e\u6703\u5947\u89c0\u3001\u8b93\u81ea\u5df1\u8655\u5728\u81ea\u8eab\u7684\u8212\u9069\u5708\u4e4b\u4e2d\uff0c\u9084\u4e0d\u5982\u628a\u540c\u7b49\u7684\u95dc\u6ce8\u8f49\u79fb\u5230\u8cea\u7591\u793e\u6703\u898f\u7bc4\u4e0a\u3002<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">People with disabilities deserve to determine their own relationships. Intimacy, whether sexual or otherwise, is an essential human craving that shouldn\u2019t be policed or allocated in degrees according to an arbitrary social hierarchy. It\u2019s about communication, closeness, and just the pure joy of sharing an experience with someone.<br \/>\n<\/span>\u4eba\u5011\u61c9\u8a72\u8981\u8b93\u8eab\u5fc3\u969c\u7919\u8005\u6c7a\u5b9a\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u4eba\u969b\u95dc\u4fc2\u3002\u89aa\u5bc6\u611f\u2500\u7121\u8ad6\u95dc\u4e4e\u60c5\u617e\u8207\u5426\u2500\u662f\u57fa\u672c\u7684\u4eba\u6027\u6e34\u6c42\uff0c\u4e0d\u61c9\u8a72\u53d7\u5230\u7368\u65b7\u7684\u793e\u6703\u5c64\u7d1a\u7684\u76e3\u7763\u6216\u914d\u7d66\u3002\u5b83\u662f\u95dc\u4e4e\u6e9d\u901a\u3001\u63a5\u8fd1\u7a0b\u5ea6\u3001\u548c\u67d0\u4eba\u5206\u4eab\u4e00\u6bb5\u7d93\u9a57\u7684\u7d14\u7cb9\u559c\u6085\u3002<\/p>\n<p>Getting laid is awesome, but it isn\u2019t the end-all, be-all for everyone.<br \/>\n<span style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">\u6027\u662f\u5f88\u68d2\u7684\u4e00\u4ef6\u4e8b\u3002\u53ea\u662f\uff0c\u5c0d\u6bcf\u500b\u4eba\u4f86\u8aaa\uff0c\u6027\u4e0d\u662f\u6700\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u4e8b\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i style=\"line-height: 1.5em;\">Erin Tatum is a\u00a0Contributing Writer at Everyday Feminism. She\u2019s a\u00a0feminist, queer theory lover, and television enthusiast living in Pennsylvania. 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